one day i got my hair cut really short and i loved it, even though looking back i think i looked like this, the unhappy fusion of these two unfortunate souls:
my bosses were then steeped in aspen hills's emerging gay dominatrix community, and informed me that with my new super shorty hair cut i looked like a "boi". it never occurred to me to investigate these charges until now; 5 years later, inside of a cubicle, counting hours until wallace makes like a tree and spruces her way to the upper west side.
BOI
- A younger person who looks and acts like a young, heterosexual male, possibly embodying stereotyped attributes towards casual sex and commitment in relationships, in contrast with the stereotype of the U-Haul lesbian. Bois may not identify as butch, regarding butches as playing a more powerful or responsible role – the "man of the house" – while a boi is still in a freer, younger phase.
- A male who identifies as a submissive/slave in BDSM.[8]
- A young transman, or a transman who is in the earlier stages of transitioning.[7]
- A term of endearment for butches by femmes.[7] It may also be used in the gay community to refer to a younger person – bisexual or gay – who may have effeminate characteristics.[7]
end note, i never thought of myself as butch, i just really liked collared shirts in 2004, ok?
